"You did what you knew how to do, and when you knew better, you did better." Maya Angelou
If you're like me, you have from time to time, looked back over various times in your life and rolled your eyes as you remember your behavior in some random situation. I take it one step further and go hide in my closet out of sheer embarrassment. I have been such a fool in my life. What's really embarrassing is that even right now, at my old and wise age, I am still exhibiting atrocious behaviors that will no doubt cause me to blush just at the memory of it. I don't know better right now though; I just hope my friends and family forgive me.
I really like this quote that I copied above. It says everything about me, and probably everybody else on this earth. I beat my self up badly for past "behaviors", but really shouldn't. It's all I knew then...and what I learned in those situations is probably why I haven't repeated them again and again.
So, the next time you catch yourself doing something that later you cringe at, just remember that you're just doing what you know, and next time you'll do better.
Thursday, November 8, 2007
Great Motto
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9 backward glances:
I'm going to have to share this with my son. We all have a tendency to be hardest on ourselves, I think.
that IS a great motto.
So true, so true! Shoe Carnival is a store here in Fayetteville, Arkansas.
Hummm, a thinker you are..
Ain't it the truth, sister!
I love this quote and I'm going to save it.
:-D
I agree that we are often too hard on ourselves...if we never make mistakes then we can never learn from them.
Forget about any cringe worthy choices you have made in the past and live for today!
Oh but I forgot to say that I do like that quote too!
I just shared this very same quote with a friend of mine who is struggling with her very difficult boyfriend. I told her that he's doing the best he can at this time in his life. If he knew any better he would do better. Sort of made sense to her. Sort of makes sense to me too. :)
Oh yes... I'm back.
yes, good motto.
but... I find that sometimes I know better but do the stupid thing anyhow.
That is when I get exaspirated with myself.
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