Sunday, August 10, 2008

What to Do, What to Do

We've got some big decisions going on in our little family right now. Decisions we've known were coming for a couple of years but now have hit a climax and if they are not made by us, they may be made for us.

I would really love to tell you all about it but that somebody is still reading my blog and should I spill my guts, surely it would work to our disadvantage because of their incessant and obnoxious gossiping. You know who you are, you little evil pest!

Anyway, quick purge of my spirit...moving on... *breathe*

I could use the moral support, some advice and words of encouragement as we enter a pretty unfamiliar place - a place of uncertainty. DH and I have always been very secure in pretty much all areas but I feel Maslow's hierarchy sort of deconstructing around us and it does not meld well with my personality.

I'm a planner, secure with little change. The baby is change enough and yet the changes on the horizon will rock my whole world and I'll just say I'm more than a bit nervous. But DH is not a risk-taker and I feel like I have to be strong and urge him to get a little crazy!

Believe me, as soon as I feel that some details are a little more ironed out and not just "talk", as so much of what DH and I do is really just "talk", it'll be posted here. And you can help me work out the rest of it...would you mind?

7 backward glances:

Christy said...

Wouldn't mind, love to help. You have always shown me kindness and I would enjoy the opportunity to give a little back.

Heidi Sue said...

I am sorry about your little pest, to bad we can't call someone like pest control(hahaha). I would love to help you in any way. You have been a big supporter of me. Love ya

Tiffany said...

I can't promise this applies to you, but one thing I have come away with from our situation is that as I have put my schedules, my agendas, and my wants aside, and tried to allow Heavenly Father to direct our lives, things have not only worked out (miraculously) but they are starting to turn out much better than my original plan and agenda. I love ya, and you'll be in my prayers.

... To the Beat of My Own Drum said...

Okay, I am going to spill the beans here. You and DH definitely need matching tatoos and I think the mohawks, Fantastic idea! HEy girl, take a walk on the wild side. Do, do, do, da, do, do, da, do...

It will all work itself out. No worries, no frets. You will do what is right.

Praying.

Tara said...

there sure is a lot going on for you! I'm praying for you if it helps :)

Rachel said...

Hang in there little camper. I know this is a stressful time in your lives. All things that will come to pass will turn out ok, you are a survivor, heaven knows that!

J'Ollie Primitives said...

Free advice? Absolutely. Love to give free advice. Cyber-encouragement and support also freely given and in abundance.

Now I'm going to spend the rest of the evening guessing at your big decision....sounds like choices will be made and lives will be altered.