tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3732505642831040032.post1048007984780980069..comments2023-08-14T08:40:47.954-06:00Comments on You Are A Fly On My Wall: The Old Lady Down The StreetAmyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15167781724086312806noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3732505642831040032.post-21421458032187220102008-09-03T18:59:00.000-06:002008-09-03T18:59:00.000-06:00thank you....applause.Our neighborhood is multigen...thank you....applause.<BR/><BR/>Our neighborhood is multigenerational. Many of the kids I grew up with on this street moved back in with their elderly parents in order to help them out financially and physically. Through the years everybody has kept tabs on everybody else. We are VERY fortunate. (yay for the Sandwich Generation!)J'Ollie Primitiveshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06744123704292534249noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3732505642831040032.post-9451525790576980452008-09-02T13:34:00.000-06:002008-09-02T13:34:00.000-06:00nice post, Amy.It is heartbreaking to see how many...nice post, Amy.<BR/><BR/>It is heartbreaking to see how many older people are forgotten. I have stories of older people who died in their homes... and no one knew for weeks. That shouldn't be.<BR/><BR/>I have also visited people in nursing homes who are entirely forgotten by family and friends. These folks may be getting the physical nourishment that they need, but they are withering away on the inside.FriendinMEhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16715099115842914210noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3732505642831040032.post-24086961816120247062008-09-01T21:46:00.000-06:002008-09-01T21:46:00.000-06:00It is true. So many people nowdays do not care abo...It is true. So many people nowdays do not care about the elderly around them. We had a precious older couple down the street from where we used to live. Right before the man passed away, he fell and we were the only ones home to help them. My husband was able to go down and help him into bed, calm them down, and read some Bible verses to them. <BR/><BR/>It only takes a few conversations and getting their phone number....you might be the only one they can rely on!<BR/><BR/>Good luck--what a rewarding job to have!Sarahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09150437151927940597noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3732505642831040032.post-91913966913712587042008-09-01T09:58:00.000-06:002008-09-01T09:58:00.000-06:00This made me smile, thinking about your bubbly per...This made me smile, thinking about your bubbly personality coming into these peoples lives, lifting them up just with your present.Rachelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08155085662034403052noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3732505642831040032.post-51532936230167180562008-08-31T23:38:00.000-06:002008-08-31T23:38:00.000-06:00You are such a good person, Amy. This post encoura...You are such a good person, Amy. This post encourages me to do more for the people I know.Jessicahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12170043582358554487noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3732505642831040032.post-72931841573259585392008-08-31T12:09:00.000-06:002008-08-31T12:09:00.000-06:00It's so so sad the way our elderly are just forgot...It's so so sad the way our elderly are just forgotten. I do know the people on my block. There was an old lady 2 doors down who was very frail. Before she passed, her kids came daily to check on her, but I always shoveled for her, even when I was a kid. I have next door neighbors on both sides who are older. One is 75, but he is very well, we see him every day and if we don't, we call him. The others aren't as old, but are not in great health, so we shovel for them and also check in if we haven't seen them.<BR/><BR/>It's wonderful what you do. I take care of my 89 year old grandma. There are days when she thinks she has eaten lunch, but she hasn't. She is mentally all there, but when you are home and do nothing all day, time runs together and you don't remember what you did today and what you did yesterday. <BR/><BR/>I'm glad to know there are people like you looking out for those without family and good neighbors to keep watch.<BR/><BR/>~Kelly<BR/>http://www.30somethingandsearching.today.com/Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3732505642831040032.post-2220897366262648362008-08-30T14:10:00.000-06:002008-08-30T14:10:00.000-06:00the hardest part about what i do is to tell a litt...the hardest part about what i do is to tell a little lady or man, and their family that the home she has spent the last 50 years is no longer the safest place for her. it makes me sad to think of what they'll go through in order to leave.Amyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15167781724086312806noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3732505642831040032.post-5501067678402983982008-08-30T11:17:00.000-06:002008-08-30T11:17:00.000-06:00That is an excellent reminder. Thanks for this ins...That is an excellent reminder. Thanks for this insight. I will strive to be more aware of those around meMikkihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05978087670569884235noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3732505642831040032.post-37405924606660351092008-08-30T08:10:00.000-06:002008-08-30T08:10:00.000-06:00Thanks Amy. We all should be more aware of our ne...Thanks Amy. We all should be more aware of our neighbors needs especially the Elderly. I agree with Aislinn also...I would find your line of work very challenging. I admire you for your compassion.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3732505642831040032.post-81375597137674973412008-08-29T22:37:00.000-06:002008-08-29T22:37:00.000-06:00I think it's amazing - what you do. It takes a spe...I think it's amazing - what you do. It takes a special person to be willing to go into situations as you describe and genuienly want to be of assistance! You make a great point - I'll have to check out my neighbors!!Aislinnhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15360852426261149038noreply@blogger.com